Schooling Mothers of Youth on Loving Effectively

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I did it because I needed a change!

I gave up my old way of thinking and created a new me in myself! I tell y’all, as I head to work this morning I can’t help reflect on a conversation I had with a family member the other day. Of course many family members do have your best interest in mind…but they are brainwashed with the same slavery mentality as you were so their advice is a little tainted if you have grown beyond them mentally and spiritually. Yes it is true that I went to college and first began as a nursing major, couldn’t stomach it so I switched to psychology and criminal justice with the plans of going to Law School. I always knew I wanted to help people make positive changes in their life, just didn’t realize which path was best.

I’ve worked in enough positions and fields to know that I’m not happy when I don’t have enough freedom. I needed to be able to work a position where I could be myself, have fun, organize, learn, exhibit my professionalism and deal with different people on a regular basis and not feel like I’m on a clock as an employee. After working jobs where I had great responsibility, long hours and stressful case loads I have now decided in a new state to try something different, to step outside of my comfort zone of hiding behind the desk and computer and literally got on my feet.

I have decided to get out of my own way with my pride and worrying about what others would think of my decisions. I was happiest when I worked at McDonald’s as a teen, I was promoted rather quickly and had fun doing so. As an adult I completed bartending school because I wanted daily money and I wanted to have fun while being myself, but my conscious wouldn’t allow me to be comfortable serving poison to my people for paper. I took some time to pray about it and decided to go to a temp agency that specializing in banquet and serving positions. I passed their little quiz and was invited to orientation…the only thing was I had to go purchase a full uniform before attending this orientation and that would cost in total close to $100.

I think I cried that night and asked the Universe what should I do. I listened and began to search Craigslist for jobs in food/hospitality and came across some good ads for hostess and servers and I thought to myself, why wait on a temp agency to send me on assignments when I could just apply directly and have a steady schedule and employer. That thought led me to an ad for Denny’s Restaurant, I figured I start there since I needed to get back in the swing of serving. I interviewed twice and was hired and I must admit this is the most fun I have had working since I was a teenager. I make the same amount I was making when I was behind the desk (when you add my hourly rate and daily tips), but with 1/3 the headache. Instead of being broke every two weeks because the bills are waiting for me to get paid, I have money daily and can budget and make sure our needs are met much efficiently. I can make peoples day brighter with my smile, and give advice with my positive attitude and suggest food options that will improve ones health with my wellness coaching. I work at a truck stop and get the pleasure meeting people from all over the country and different walks of life.

I’ve been able to pay towards my dreams of being an author and motivational speaker without sacrificing the cost of bills or rent because I am in better control of the flow of money. The moral of my story is once you learn to let go of the ego and pride, get out of your own way and begin to do the things that make you happy, it will create more happiness and you will become blessed and start to see how God works in your life. It starts with faith, is your cup ready to overflow??!! Don’t let this government, bills or the economy discourage you..where that stops is where God takes over…take a step out on faith today!
Peace & Love
Ono


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The purpose of education, the realest ish I ever wrote!

Let me just say that I am not against education…I love for people to get knowledge..I am against the educational system that this country has evolved into, before the industrial revolution..which is the era that was created when the government realized..hey we can train people to work and make money for us, let’s help them forget their natural talents and just teach them what we want them to know. Before this time our people used their natural talents as their business that took care of their families. There were merchants, locksmiths, candlestick makers, farmers, etc. Not to mention how awesome it was to have a bartering system..where its like hey I will give you x amount of candles for x amount of produce. Therefore business owners were able to barter for the needs of their families and only capitalize from those not participating in the bartering system, which were still many. These days they want us to pay to get their idea of education, so we can work to support their freedom, not ours. In the meantime they bombard us with media that shows us all this shit and they brainwash us into thinking we ain’t shit if we don’t buy into it. Nike’s, Jordan’s, big homes, fancy cheaply built cars, clothes and accessories that are made in China. Let’s not even get started on China, that’s an entirely different conversation. What I’m saying is, get educated…if going to college is your goal, by all means do it. What I want you to avoid is the slavery mentality of believing everything you see because someone is telling you that you should. Make your money and invest in what makes you happy. You may love to make candles or sew your own clothes or paint beautiful pictures on canvas. Instead of buying expensive clothes and shoes and helping the rich get richer…try using your own talents to help you build revenue so you can get out of that debt and truly be free. You don’t have to work until you are 65 because they told you so, get smarter and you can retire at 25, 35, 45 or 55 and live a healthier more fulfilling life doing what you are truly meant to do. Will everyone read this and stop giving so much money back to the corporation just to show you got it like that? No! Does that makes me angry? Yes! But hey, the life of righteous is not for everyone, only a selected chosen few..and those few are the ones I’m writing this for. Be smart, don’t believe the hype…it with cost you your happiness.
Peace & Love
Ono


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We aren’t parents, we are assistants of the Universe

Not everyone is gifted with the ability to have children. Trust me if you have children it is for a more divine reason than you realize. Not every man and woman that has unprotected sex produces children. What bothers me is when parents think their kids were born and owe them something. Children are born because God has a purpose for their lives and saw fit for you to be the conceiver and bearer of the child. Many of us don’t realize our purpose enough to raise children into their purpose. It is important for us to learn more about what we enjoy doing and what makes us happy so we can do more of those things and pass it on to our children. I remember one time after a holiday my step Mom caught me giving a piece of ham to a stray dog and I got yelled at. She also used to offer us kids up to the drunks asking her for change in the street as a joke. As a child this is most confusing especially if God wanted you on this Earth to be a giver. So please parents stop trying to live your life through your children, you never know how the little things will slow your child down from living in their purpose. Let them explore and find other activities for them to participate in other than things you did as a child. My children like soccer, tennis and swimming and a variety of other things. None of these things I wanted to do daily as a child, but because I know I have them and it is my duty to guide them into happiness I will do research and find someone who is into those activities that can help. Think about your kids talents and things they enjoy doing and get them to doing more of it. Not only will it increase their happiness, but it may turn into their purpose which can turn into their success.

Peace & Love
Ono


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Feel it, speak it, write it and so shall it be

This message came to me this morning as I woke up and began to send out positive vibes to those on my mind this morning. Everyday there are a numerous amount of people that my spirit sends me, so when they pop in my mind I send them my energy even though I may be miles away. In particular my brother has been heavy on my mind, as I began to analyze the reason why it is probably because I want the best for him. It seems like there is a curse on the males in my family they all get themselves into some unnecessary shit and end up with their rights and freedom stripped from them. They go to prison as young men and from then on their lives are so much more complicated and they miss out on so much. I want my people to learn from others mistakes so they can know how to avoid them, not try to see if that same mistake will have a different outcome in their lives. I recently told my brother to write down his goals. I constantly pray that when I instruct someone to do something, they listen! Scientifically speaking I am born in the week of prophecy, which means I have the gift of communicating and enforcing revealed truth. So my truth here today for all that are reading this is, have you ever heard the saying that all things happen in 3?! For example, death? Father, son, holy spirit? The trinity? Well if that sounds familiar listen to what I tell you. So many people simply just pray about what they want and continue to miss their blessings because they are only doing the first step, however there are two additional steps that follow when you desire to attract goodness into your life. When you pray get in tune with your mind and your body, then your mind will subconsciously begin to help you figure out what you want in life. Step 2 is to say what you want aloud, most of the time our prayers are done silently, we need to get it out and say it so that it could be real. Say what you want to someone who you can trust as an accountability partner, someone that can hold you accountable for the goals you set for yourself. Even better is someone who may be praying for the same thing as you. The final step is to write it down, it is not enough for you to think and pray about it…you have to say it and you have to write it down. From here you will REALLY begin to see God work in your life. We can pray and God is ready to assist…but you have some work to do as well. Come to God with your half of the cup filled and watch how it begins to overflow, have fun with life because life is what you make it!

Peace & Love
Ono


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Believing in Faith, without believing in Religion

I’m annoyed by people with little to no faith….they claim their current situation as though it can’t change. They claim disease as though they can’t be healed…they claim death as though they can’t continue to live smh. In my life I have taken sooo many steps out on faith alone just to see for myself what the Universe can do…ignored those around me who are faithless and I tell you…it is amazing! I’ve received money, cars, jobs, relationships, places of shelter, protection all without knowing what the heck was going on, all I knew was it HAS to work out! If I could find more people like that, I would be more social…right now I’d rather just stay in my own world where I believe anything is possible! It gets hard at times and when you look in your pocket at there is no money or you open the refrigerator and it is bare or when you have more bills than income it can be a little frustrating and we may say things because we are confused and upset, but take back those negative words and thoughts immediately and replace them with positivity. The Universe will forgive you and also change your situation. I don’t believe in any particular religion I feel they create separation and war, my religion is love. However I do have faith in a higher entity, not the Son…but the Sun the Creator of the Universe. It doesn’t matter if you believe what I believe or not, the key is to realize you were created with purpose an destiny and your God will not being you this far just to have you suffer, there are lessons an blessings to be acknowledged within the struggle and if you take time to still be grateful no matter what you are going through, you will see more sunshine than rain.
Peace & Love


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What?! I’m not a Sagittarius?!

So, for those of you that don’t know…I am studying astrology and numerology and life is beginning to make so much sense now. I have always been curious about things that I couldn’t understand like, who built the roads and named the streets and why are people so different from each other? Let’s just say I didn’t grow up around a lot of open-minded people and with my questions going unanswered, I do what many young adults do…get distracted. Well at the age of 30 the Universe is showing me that I had to go through certain events and meet certain people in order for this moment to matter.I was born 12/21 at 11:40p, which is 20 minutes before 12/22 and the beginning of the Capricorn era. So I coined the term for myself “Sagicorn” in high school. Since I have moved into studying the rotation of the Moon in conjunction with the Zodiac, I have now gotten confirmation that I am indeed a Capricorn and Sagittarius is done 12/20…this has me looking at myself in a different perspective. The two signs have significant differences. Amazing how our beliefs shape us, since that confirmation it feels like a part of me doesn’t need to pretend anymore…when I didn’t even realize that I was pretending…sounds crazy, but it is hard to explain! Thought I just wanted a garden because I’m a vegetarian and it is economical…but it could be because Capricorn is an Earth sign and enjoys gardening. I thought I was into unique styles and fashion because of my parents, but Capricorns are into themselves and how they look in the eyes of others. It is up to you or not whether you believe, but the truth is…


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What is up with our history

Okay, so some of yall know that we homeschool our children. Mainly for the purposes of being in control of what our children learn and partly for safety reasons. So today when Oniya did her history lesson it was about Christopher Columbus. The lesson went on to say how Columbus is from Spain and him and his boys would travel to China to barter and trade for gold and spices or whatnot. Columbus then tries to convince the King and Queen of Spain that he knows a shorter way to Asia and he needs financial support. Columbus tells them that he can get to Asia quicker going straight across the Atlantic…Columbus was unaware that North and South America existed and were going to get in the way of his voyage…SERIOUSLY?! The lesson claims he did so much studying and preparing his voyage….how could he miss a big, gigantic, enormous piece of land such as North and South America?! Then the lesson says they arrived in a boat to a beach and nice people came out to greet them, and they were nice and helpful and were unarmed. Columbus called them Indians because he was convinced that he indeed made it to Asia…in one month! LOL how foolish. If he did soooo much research he should have known it would have been impossible to reach Asia in one month…however, they stayed for a spell then traveled back to Spain to tell the King and Queen about their journey to the “New World.” No wonder I failed American History in the 9th grade and had to make it up in summer school. Are we seriously suppose to believe that?! Well if you do believe trust me it is not your fault…our history is much different from what the Elite want us to know, think about it…if you had all the silver and gold in the world…stop getting caught up in your discussion about money (money is a figure of your imagination…it is not real…it is simply a piece of paper AKA an IOU) if you had everything precious and priceless don’t you think you could control what others know and don’t know?! I won’t get too heavy in this post, but if you stay tuned you will learn the truth over time.

Peace & Love