Come on y’all I need your help in this one. I will often bring up topics that I discuss with friends or clients just to get a consensus on the topic. Ladies what do we do if we enter into a relationship and our boyfriends have female friends that they have been cool with before we entered the picture? Same question for the men, what do you say to your boo if she didn’t tell you upfront that she is so close with other men? Do we give them an ultimatum or trust them? Does it make it better if he or she is taken and in a relationship of their own? Would you expect your partner to suggest double dating even if you don’t know either person?